*This week’s guest blogger is Stina Herberg, St. Vincent in the Caribbean
Thank you, Carolyn, for having the opportunity to be a guest blogger. My name is Stina, I am 44 years and born in a small village in Norway. In 2007, I rescued a herd of abandoned and abused horses in the island of St. Vincent in the Caribbean.

St. Vincent is the second poorest island in the Caribbean, after Haiti. I had decided to take up a new work challenge to run a non profit that focused on development work, education, farming and environment.
I had no idea where this herd would take me and what an incredible journey we embarked upon!
I meet my first horse when I was 10 years old and it was love at first sight. He was a big beautiful draft horse that used to plough the land. When I meet him he was living in a big field with lots of grass and was not working anymore because the farmer had bought a tractor. Every day after school I would go over and just spend time with him. His name was “Brunen” which means brown in Norwegian. Our relationship was so… Read more
Tags: bit-less, bitless, Carolyn Resnick Trainers, dream relationship, horse training blog, Liberty horse training, liberty riding, liberty training, Liberty Training Workshops, riding in harmony, unity riding, Waterhole Rituals
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Feb 2nd, 2012 by Carolyn Resnick
If this is your first time reading my blog about training horses at liberty, I want to give you a very warm welcome. I want to fill you in on what today’s blog post is about. This blog post is a continuation that started two weeks ago. If you start at the beginning, you will know what I am referring to in today’s entry.
It is that time of year again and I am delighted to offer our special Valentine’s Day Coaching Call, Tuesday February 14th, 2012 where the topics will be:
“How to Make a True Heart Connection with Your Horse: Which comes first Respect or Love?
Discussion: What 10 things are on your Horse’s Bucket List?”
The format for our call will be a short introductory piece and some coaching from me followed by an open question and answer session. Please bring your HORSE’S BUCKET LIST as we’ll be sharing our lists with each other on the call. A Bucket List is a list of things your horse would like to do or things your horse would like to have – like my horse
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Tags: Benefits of Waterhole Rituals, blog, bond, fear, herd behaviour, horse training, lesson, liberty training, love for horses, positive training, resistance, respect, shaping behavior
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Jan 26th, 2012 by Carolyn Resnick
This week’s post is from guest blogger Kai Mattern.
From riding waves to riding horses
Sports like white water kayaking, surfing and windsurfing took up the bulk of my life, sports that teach you to work together with nature rather than against it and the occasional encounters I had with horses and their riders didn’t match the pictures I had in my mind.

Leading at Liberty

Leading with tack
My background with horses
One day I went for a ride on a dude string which is another funny story I might tell in another occasion, either way it led to me taking riding lessons and some months later to my decision to get my own horse. I bought Oli when he was around 9, he was an extreme horse, a thoroughbred off the track with plenty of go but no whoa. Researching horse training on the internet, I found lots of information on natural horsemanship and for sure this was the path I wanted to be on. One method I tried, was round… Read more
Tags: Beyond the Waterhole Rituals, Europe, horse training clinic, horsemanship, Kai Mattern, leading a horse, Leading a Stallion, liberty training, setting boundaries with stallions, studying with Carolyn Resnick, training horses, Waterhole Rituals
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Continued From Last Week: “After Liberty Training – The Importance of Leading Your Horse” After all your comments of anticipation for this lesson, I surely hope I do not let you down! These simple exercises that follow will teach you how to hold Ora’s horse. You can use them any time you are leading your horse.
Reminder of the upcoming clinic in March:

Developing Your Approach to Connection: In a Nutshell
Taking this approach will help your horse to follow your lead. Become the change you want in your horse and accept what you get back from your horse. Do not beat yourself up when you do not receive what you think you should get back, either.
Imagine your approach and the connection you are wanting to gain before you do this exercise. Before you begin, take a few moments or an afternoon to become relaxed and grounded. Feeling calmness will help your horse become centered when he feels scattered. Not being scattered yourself draws a horse to your leadership. Develop a habit of projecting calmness when your horse feels scattered. As you are practicing this exercise, take your horse to places… Read more
Tags: after liberty training, connection, horse training without force, how to lead, leading a horse, lesson, liberty training, light aids, when to use tack, why horses shy
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Here we are starting out on a new year. I am so looking forward to our next online course. If you have any questions regarding the course, let me know, so I can answer them for you and get you started on a great journey. I design the Waterhole Rituals Online course around you and your particular horse as you learn how to use my method. It is a journey that will take you to a deep cross-species bond from training your horse through The Waterhole Rituals. The Waterhole Rituals is a journey that will benefit all, horses and humans. You will be addressing your horse in the same manner you would, if you were to meet your horse on a desert island and a relationship took place there, that lasted you a life time. To learn more about the Spring 2012 program view this page: Waterhole Rituals Online Course – Insider Circle and Extended Circle Seats are available.
In other exciting news, we have added a new Beyond the Waterhole Ritual Clinic for Spring 2012. For more information please view the Beyond The Waterhole Rituals Clinic page. Remember this is… Read more
Tags: Beyond, Beyond the Waterhole Rituals, horse training, horse training blog, horse training tips, leading your horse, liberty training, Liberty Training Workshops, Waterhole Rituals Program
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Jan 5th, 2012 by Carolyn Resnick
Happy New Year to you and to all the connections we share! I want to thank you for being in my life. I wish everyone around the world abundance, deeper connections, health and happiness that multiplies around the world like the abundance of nature in spring.
New Year Wishes
My wish for the new year is for an apprentice or two who have a solid background in training horses that would stay for a long time to learn all aspects my method (Waterhole Rituals, Uberstreichen Exercises, Single Lining, dressage training and bridle-less riding) who could represent my method as I would like it to be. In exchange, I would like you to help me with educational material, office work, emails and bookings or your own unique skills (video, marketing, ???…). Thank you for all the greetings you left me on my blog. There is been no one in the office during the holidays but me. I was not able to respond to your comments because something in the system that was blocking my response. However I do want you to know, I read them all and I’m back to being able to write.
Expectations and Performance Horses
Expecting performance is… Read more
Tags: bridle-less riding, dressage training, horse training, performance horses, Single Lining, Uberstreichen exercises, Waterhole Rituals, working students
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Dec 29th, 2011 by Carolyn Resnick
Learning more about the magic of the co-creative process
Horses are flexible in their attitude and emotions from willing to unwilling, from trusting to fearful, from relaxed to hyper. Basically a horse’s nature is dynamic, cautious and willing. That makes sense, we are a lot like that ourselves. Horses have two changeable behaviors, fluctuating from trusting to not trusting, from social to antisocial… a bit like we are in our own society. They also seek friendship and live in communities and family groups…again a bit like us. When they feel secure and have enough space, food and water, they life in unity and harmony with one another.
Horses are very social, caring, outwardly affectionate and seek unity and harmony with one another most of the time. Once we have formed a deep bond with a horse it will be deeper than the one we can share with our own species. When we share a cross-species bond, the horse shows us how deep our feeling for friendship can be. If we choose to look for this connection with all things our well-being and appreciations for life is enhanced. Then, when we can extend this connection to the people in our life,… Read more
Tags: co-creative leadership, communicating with horses, cross-species bond, freedom, liberty training, trust, valuable life lesson, well-being, well-being and horses
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