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Hello and a happy 4th of July to you!

I am delighted to announce the first in what we hope will be a series of stories from Margaret who featured on the post Being in nature. We have been exchanging messages with each other and I asked her if she wouldn’t mind sharing some of her journey with us as she gets to know her mare, Amber, in the 230 acres they and 30 other horses share up there in the mountains in northern California. Margaret seems to experience the same joy as I do from the simple pleasures to be found in nature and her stories bring a smile to my heart, I hope they do to yours too.

Have a super weekend and I look forward to talking with you again next week.

Carolyn

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Autumn and me on the mountain top

Hi Carolyn

Last Saturday was a real neat morning for us. I couldn’t sleep and decided to head to the barn around 5:30. I found Autumn in the lower meadow of the pasture which looks like the edge of it just falls off into the the redwooded mountains below us. A thunderstorm the night before lit up a bunch a forest fires and a light veil of smoke hung in the valley. I could just barely see the outline of the full moon. I was sitting there, Autumn grazing away beside me when the sunlight behind me lit up the smokey haze in an orange glow. I turned to look at Autumn when I noticed that the moon and the sun were completely parallel to each other in the sky. It was like two old lovers catching a glimpse of each other in a crowd of people. It only lasted for a few minutes before they were torn apart but it was so cool. I felt lucky to have seen that with my best friend beside me.

A little after that I dozed off and woke up with Autumn standing with her head right over me while a bunch of her friends crept in close to me. I was a little alarmed an glad I didn’t have a hoof wake me up but there was my baby standing guard. She wandered off as soon as I was awake and resumed her eating.

I’ve been on a bunch of your YouTube videos. It’s hypnotic to watch the horses and you work with each other. That magnetic bond is just unbelievable. I have just a smidgen of that with Autumn and I know how exhilarating it is, even if it lasts only for a short while. But I’ll tell you, what you do with your horses is what I want to be able to do with Autumn and any horse I ever get to work with. I’ve been watching Panendaro’s DVD’s and scouring them over and over again to see what I can do with Autumn right now. I did the treats and the bucket and didn’t let her “take it” but kept my space until she lost interest and I let her have her little treats. She kept an eye on me the whole time she ate and when she was finished she was “hooked on” to me. It was like a relaxing way to accomplish the join up in a round pen without all the tight circle running. She just followed me around forwards and backwards.

We’ve had a few funny things happen the past week. I’ve just been sneaking in little bits of time here and there because work has been busy, I hate not having enough time with her. Anyhow, her boyfriend horse, Opi, has been chasing her away from me when I come out in the pasture. She’ll start walking up to me and he’ll just run up to her biting her on the butt and hocks until she walks away all floppy eared and sad. I’m a pushier mare when it comes to my Autumn time and I’ll chase him off and she’ll just hide behind me, all 16 hands of her. Sometimes, in the mornings when I go to check on her I can’t find either one of them with their normal herd. I swear he’s hiding her!

She’s really such a neat horse. I can tell she really loves me. I just found some old scrap books I made at about 10 years old and found all these letters I wrote to my horse Flicker and they all had the line. “I love Flicker. I know Flicker loves me” they cracked me up…20 years later I’m writing the same things.

I have one neat story that happened a few months ago. I decided to take Autumn on a hike to the top of the mountain for some ocean views. We just were making our way down a narrow path where on one side is about a 6 foot straight drop that connects with a steep hill and the other side is a big pond. The width of the path is about six feet wide. We had just got to the middle of the path when Autumn hit the breaks and the sound of 20 -30 sets of hooves were storming up the hill. We had nowhere to go. My mind slowed and reviewed what was about to happen… I have a 1 & 1/2 year old youngster, a herd of 30 horses coming at us and the only options are to jump or swim. But before a plan of action could be made Autumn arched her body around me, head tucking me in, and those big beautiful draft legs anchoring themselves into place. The horses sped by in bay, sorrel, palomino and painted blurs. They splashed through the pond, balanced on the edge of the drop off and crashed into Autumn, rocking her body as she kept me tucked in safe next to her. When it was all over my heart was pounding and I was shaking like a leaf. I looked at Autumn and just knew that she just saved my life. She protected me. She kept her head on her shoulders when most horses would’ve kicked me in the ass as they were high tailing it out of there. I guess that is why it is so important to me to work with Autumn in a way that is respectful of her, that keeps her spirit and her heart. I always want Autumn to have that love for me enough to save me from being trampled on a trail or in life. I love Autumn. And Autumn loves me! (it still cracks me up to write that again!)
Take care

Margaret

P.S. For my birthday present, my husband Casey hired someone to trailer us to the beach

Autumn and me on the beach

Recently I heard of the unfortunate tragic end of the life and career of Eight Belles. I was struck by the comments of several people interviewed about the event and I realized that I felt absolute outrage at some of these comments.

First, I remember the reporter asking a gentleman about the race and the ethics of horse racing. He said that horses “love racing” and “she (Eight Belles) especially would have given her life to be able to race”.– Continue Reading »

Hello. Hope you had a nice weekend. Today we have a question from Michelle from Canada who is already using the Waterhole Rituals to good effect by the sound of it but was seeking a little more clarification. Michelle wrote:

When I go to “say hello”, Amber(my mare) will sometimes walk towards me, so do I retreat, continue and still walk off or what?? She also did this to me later on during the eye contact ritual, so I did some “companion walking” to compensate for her decision.–> Continue Reading »

Liberty Training

Welcome! I hoped you liked the photo’s on Wednesday, weren’t they cute? Today I have another surprise for you and for me too actually. The video below is from a new DVD of mine called “Liberty Training”. Well, I say new but in reality it was shot about 20 years ago on the ranch I had in Sonoma.

It’s really quite amazing to look at it now and see how much my Method has developed over the years but at the same time how the fundamentals have not.

I had sold this as a video for many years and it was really popular. So we debated whether to re-issue it in DVD format and in the end decided we should. It’s going to take a bit of time but I think it’ll worth it. The video is such a succinct piece of work and certainly helped a great many people train their horse. Were you one of them?! If so, I’d love to hear of your experiences so please write to me via the contact page or to info@carolynresnickblog.com.

Have a super weekend and enjoy the video.
Best

Carolyn

Horse photo’s

Hi again. I asked a week or so ago whether anyone would like to send me pictures of their horses and I received an old-fashioned sackful of them! Unfortunately, I can’t show them all, so here is just a selection. I’ll speak with my tech guy to see if he can figure out how you guys can post your own pictures to the blog in the future. Till then, enjoy!

Carolyn

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From Margaret, who featured on the post Being in nature

Autumn waiting for me to catch up while I was following her around (she led me to the barn to come in for a little grooming and grain)

Autumn

Autumn is on the right side taking a drink at her home at Jackson Hill Ranch in Blue Lake, CA….–> Continue Reading »

Lizards and leadership

My first lesson on leadership was when I was a little girl and was taught to me by a lizard.

In the olden days, the milk cartons had little tabs that you pulled up and made a little tiny hole in the corner of, so that when you turned it over, it would pour. It kind of made a natural spout and then you stuck the cork back into that little hole. They were little cute. I liked them.–> Continue Reading »

Rodeo time….

Hi. Today’s question comes from Danny in Alabama, who is faced with a challenge perhaps many of you experience with new horses. The way to deal with it is similar to the way you might deal with a child that is upset, you change their focus. Read on to see what Danny is asks and what I recommend. Hope it helps!

I have acquired a couple of horses because their owner could not feed them. I have ridden all my life and never had this problem. You have to fight these horses away from the barn, I mean it is a rodeo every time. What can be done? Thanks.

Danny–> Continue Reading »

Pecking order

Hi. The story that I am going to share with you today is about a horse that you may have seen on some of my videos by the name of Panadero. He is an Andalusian Stallion and he is absolutely just the most expressive horse you could ever wish to meet.

Everyday that I went out to see him he would run up to me and we would play this game where we used–> Continue Reading »

Hello, hope you all had a lovely weekend.

The story that I would like to share with you today is something that happened to me a couple of weeks ago when we were doing some filming. We were working on my new DVD that we are going to be bringing out showing the different personalities of horses and how each personality responds to the Waterhole Rituals.

We had a horse here that is known as a fearful shy horse and we needed to have one like that to not only show his experience with the Rituals but to show people what a fearful horse looks like.–> Continue Reading »

Being in nature

Hello again. Today’s post is a long one and comes from a message I received via my blog. It was a lovely letter, full of heart and I felt moved to write a response. So with your approval, here is the letter and my reply in full.

Have a lovely weekend!

Carolyn

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Hi

I just read your book and loved it. I’ve been ploughing through various horse training methods and ideas with some positive outcomes but not without feeling like a perfectionist, pushing up the pressure in getting the job done. I was left with a feeling of anxiety every time I went–> Continue Reading »

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