Beautiful Serena As a mother of four, I learned years ago that motivational techniques which work with one child may not work for another. This realization has helped me immensely in the training of horses. Just as there are no two humans alike, there are no two horses alike either. Obviously, it is impossible to use the exact same methods with all horses.
An experienced horsewoman named Barb Fenwick recently hosted one of my clinics in Canada. As Barb picked me up at the airport and drove me to her home, she shared with me the story of her horse named Serena. Barb stated that she was at a loss concerning how to move forward with Serena. Five years ago, Barb rescued Serena yet she still carries emotional scars from her formerly horrific life. Upon hearing about Serena, I offered to work with her right away.
Putting Serena into a paddock area by herself was not an easy task. First, we brought Serena and her pasture mates into the paddock. Then, Barb took the other horses out and put them into an adjacent paddock where Serena could visit with them over the fence. As I sat with Serena in the paddock, I could tell how “checked out” she was. She paced the fence line and pooped loose stools which are both indicative of how nervous she was feeling. Despite having nice clean hay and grass in the paddock, Serena was very distracted and unable to focus as I sat with her.
I put on some slow music and as I became more grounded, I focused on this beautiful, yet disturbed mare. Serena was vigilantly watching everything around her, including me. I began to slowly move around the paddock and studied her reactions, mimicking her as if I were a horse. When Serena became comfortable with me being near her, I began connecting with her by keeping my breath in rhythm with hers. When she snorted, I snorted. When she paced, I paced. As she looked in any direction, I too looked in the same direction while standing by her side. Together, we stomped our feet at the flies. I scratched her where she itched, pulled grass when she ate, and in essence did everything I could to behave like another horse. Serena’s curiosity finally peaked as she began to tentatively sniff and explore me. Although I tried to remain very still, Serena was unable to focus for very long and quickly became distracted again. Thus, I just moved with her while mirroring her behavior. Our session ended as I invited Serena to eat carrots from a pan wedged between my legs, a behavior which taps into memories of nursing from a horse’s mother. I proceeded to work with five other horses and at the end of the day, the clinic participants asked if I would work with Serena again. Of course, I gladly obliged.
I spent time with Serena during the next two days (morning and afternoon) while asking for nothing in return. With each passing day, Serena became less distracted, paced less, and clearly became more comfortable overall. She began to show subtle signs of engagement with me. On the third day, as I stayed outside the paddock to coach Barb, a breakthrough in her relationship with Serena unfolded before our eyes. In the stillness of the moment, Serena and Barb shared an unspoken yet unmistakable connection as affection flowed through them. I was moved to tears. Barb wrote the following:
"Serena and I were at a standstill. I adopted her 5 years ago, when she was 8 years old. She was raised feral, never having kind hands on her in all those years. She had to be rescued with her herd from their flooded farm in 2009 and was subjected to terrifying handling and near drowning to get her to safety. The abusive way of handling continued as they put these horses in tipping tables to give them their first hoof trim.
So, we had come a long way, this terrified, defensive mare and I. But here we were 5 years later and the trust and bond was still not solid.
I had been studying Carolyn’s methods since this spring, but still had not found the key to “Serena” in my work with her. She had come along some, but I had come to the point this summer that I was about ready to quit on her and see if I could find her a home as a broodmare or companion horse for the right person.
In flew Linda Salinas. I had booked her to give a clinic here at my ranch in the WHR early this August. The first day she worked with Serena was like watching a band leader draw the music out of an orchestra. She began to bring out the music in Serena. It was pure magic to those of us watching. My heart swelled as Linda’s mind, spirit and body language allowed Serena to feel safe and finally there was someone talking her language, CLEARLY! It was so beautiful to behold. Linda found the sweet mare I know she is, and coaxed her to relax and begin the preparation for the dance. Linda was truly like an angel flying in to rescue us both from our confusion, giving us both new ways and hope for our continued growth into the future, together." — Barb Fenwick Barb has stated that Serena is a work in progress and most certainly is not an easy fix. I shared with Barb that it is important to love and accept Serena just the way she is without a desire to “fix” her. Barb certainly has her hands full, but with commitment, time, perseverance and patience there is hope that Serena can overcome her past. We are all cheering for Barb and Serena! I will continue to provide updates as I receive them from Barb.
Relationships with horses can be challenging. It is important to remember that before a relationship can begin, you must find a “point of entry” with your horse. The tool you use to find this “point of entry” is dependent upon each horse’s uniqueness and history.
***A special thanks and gratitude to Carolyn Resnick for teaching me her method of horsemanship. Thank you Carolyn, the “thank yous” never seem to end.
Note from Carolyn:
Thank you so much for sharing this story with us Linda. I love hearing the wonderful, heart felt stories that your students experience at your clinics. You truly bring out the "Spirituality through the Training of Horses at Liberty".
Not only do I see amazing changes and deep spiritual connections made with the horses, but also with the people you train. Bringing people and their horses closer together, no matter their history, is a magical sight to see.
I would highly recommend anyone thinking about starting, watching or interested in my Method to go to Linda's next clinic in North Carolina.
If you are closer to California than North Carolina, don't forget I have a group clinic in November and December of this year where you will learn the Waterhole Rituals along with the spiritual side of training horses at Liberty.
See below for Clinic opportunities in the Carolyn Resnick Method.
Have a great weekend! Be on the lookout for new horse and human sightings and may the horse be with you.
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November 20-November 23, 2014
December 11-December 14, 2014
September 14/15, 2014 (starts)
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Available for Private Lessons, Private and Group Clinics in:
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